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The Pervocracy

While the blog hasn't been updated in a while, the archives are full of resources and insights about creating and negotiating happy relationships as queer, transgender, polyamorous, and kinky. There is also much discussion about how to deal with abuse in our communities (the missing stair), and how to avoid being a shitty person in general.  Looking for a laugh? I recommend checking out the cosmocking tag. 

Cliff also has an active personal tumblr where he occasionally answers questions pertaining to sexual health, kink, etc. 

Captain Awkward


Captain Awkward
 gives some of the best emotional and relational advice out there. While not explicitly queer or polyamorous, it is definitely an inclusive place and Jennifer is a kind, smart cookie. Topics covered include romantic relationships, issues with parents, abusive situations, mental health, and how to express and uphold healthy boundaries. Honestly, this column changed how I do relationships of all kinds.